She can ride me, and induce something that I can only describe as a ruined orgasm, as my body will lock up, or even recoil from a pending orgasm. I still get very horny, and fully erect, but find myself unwilling, or unable to climax. Showering, when denied for a few weeks, is an exercise in futility, as my conscious mind tries (daily) to outwit my subconscious into a good ol' fashioned stroke.Īs for the effectiveness during sex, it's weird. With travel (hers and mine) a somewhat constant (and yet erratic) part of our day-to-day, this seems to be a way to keep the kink, while living an outwardly normal life. She has adopted well, using commands/triggers to either turn the belt on, or off. Very interesting, as the transfer of the "key" has not only worked well, but repeated use by my KH seems to make the belt even stronger. I can report no rashes, no chafing, no bulges.but definitely working. So, here we are, several weeks into wearing the HCB. Just checking in, as I've been traveling a bit, and unable for work or other reasons, to "lurk" on the blog as much as I would like. But perhaps, in the name of science, this is worth some quality porn-viewing time?! Thanks for the inspiration! The PC muscle trick seems plausible, but a long road to get there. It sounds weird, but my subconscious is not only powerful, but seems to have me figured out pretty well. Grinding away onto the mattress is okay for a little while, but as I "get close", either I "lose interest", or hips will just "lock up", and refuse to go. Even nipple play (admittedly, a big turn on for me)is off limits. One stroke is about all that I am allowed to do before hands fly away. Pumping an erect cock is akin to getting a grip on a greased pole. It seems almost silly, but as soon as even showering begins to turn to something else, the mental lock engages, and my hand (either one) will lock up arthritically, unable to close on even light stroking. While she emailed this to reinforce my concerns of transfer effectiveness, I doubt there's much to improve upon, as my hands "can't get a grip" beyond showering/dressing/bathroom duties". She also suggests not to "test drive", and instead encourage my KH to lock or unlock based on desired end state.
Lee sent a note suggesting that for 'best effect', my KH should test the device, either by unlocking/locking, or by some other command. When we talk on the phone, kids or daily issues are at hand, but it's clear that her curiousity is engaged late at night, and when she's alone, which seems a good thing. Will find out more this weekend, if various text messages and emails are a sign. Yes, I think my KH does like the prospects of her new toy.